Category Archives: Young Adult Sexuality

Hooking Up vs. Holding Out: Helping Singles Find a Healthy Sexual Balance (Part 7 of 7)

Hooking Up vs. Holding Out: Helping Singles Find a Healthy Sexual Balance (Part 7 of 7) Drawing Boundary Lines It’s important for a couple to be honest with one another about their sexual history (particularly a history that involves sexual … Continue reading

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Hooking Up vs. Holding Out: Helping Singles Find a Healthy Sexual Balance (Part 6 of 7)

Hooking Up vs. Holding Out: Helping Singles Find a Healthy Sexual Balance (Part 6 of 7)   Questions to Explore in Pre-Marital Counseling As spiritual leaders, we must boldly take pre-marital counseling sessions into regions that may cause some discomfort, … Continue reading

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Hooking Up vs. Holding Out: Helping Singles Find a Healthy Sexual Balance (Part 5 of 7)

Hooking Up vs. Holding Out: Helping Singles Find a Healthy Sexual Balance (Part 5 of 7) Forbidden Fruit vs. Not-So-Guilty Pleasures When teaching young people about boundaries in dating or courtship relationships, it’s easy to focus on all the things … Continue reading

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Hooking Up vs. Holding Out: Helping Singles Find a Healthy Sexual Balance (Part 4 of 7)

Hooking Up vs. Holding Out: Helping Singles Find a Healthy Sexual Balance (Part 4 of 7) Striking a Healthy Balance The purpose of marriage is to reflect to the world Christ’s unwavering commitment to His (unfaithful) bride, the Church.  Therefore … Continue reading

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Hooking Up vs. Holding Out: Helping Singles Find a Healthy Sexual Balance (Part 3 of 7)

Hooking Up vs. Holding Out: Helping Singles Find a Healthy Sexual Balance (Part 3 of 7)   Although I believe wholeheartedly in the inerrancy of scripture, I must say that I’m often tempted to interject a parenthetical phrase into Hosea … Continue reading

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Hooking Up vs. Holding Out: Helping Singles Find a Healthy Sexual Balance (Part 2 of 7)

Hooking Up vs. Holding Out: Helping Singles Find a Healthy Sexual Balance (Part 2 of 7) When the Pendulum Swings to the Left If anyone had asked me in the sixth grade if I wanted to remain a virgin until … Continue reading

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Hooking Up vs. Holding Out: Helping Singles Find a Healthy Sexual Balance (Part 1 of 7)

Hooking Up vs. Holding Out: Helping Singles Find a Healthy Sexual Balance (Part 1 of 7)   (This article originally appeared in Enrichment Journal, 03/2011) I’ll never forget the day one of my best childhood friends got a new swing … Continue reading

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Susie Magazine on the Shelf

My dear friend and ministry colleague Susie Shellenberger (founder and former editor of Focus on the Family’s Brio Magazine) recently started a NEW magazine for young women called Susie. Like Brio, Susie Magazine assumes its reader is smart, world-conscious, creative … Continue reading

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This Hurts My Heart…

In light of my last blog about inviting your husband into your healing process when you’ve been sexually abused, I was incredibly saddened to read this article about a young woman who’s choosing to abuse herself…   Student auctions off … Continue reading

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Raising Sexually Healthy Kids

I heard a lady exclaim the other day, “Parents shouldn’t talk so openly with children about sex or else it will awaken their desires!” Sorry, but I couldn’t disagree more. Ask any teen, “The last time your parents tried to … Continue reading

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